Classic Conditioning Message 1: Big shot Bachelors and the future successes of Birth Control.
Wilt Chamberlin was one of the
greatest basketball players of all time. He was 7’1 and had a personality that
was even larger. He was a basketball star for the Lakers, living like a Rock star
and driving Ferrari’s through the Los Angeles Hills . He was scoring on and off
the court and wrote in his autobiography that he had slept with over 20,000 women in his lifetime.
As a reader you're probably thinking he was a womanizing and Misogynistic giant.
He was actually the opposite stating that "With all of you men out there
who think that having a thousand different ladies is pretty cool, I have
learned in my life I've found out that having one woman a thousand different times
is much more satisfying." Having either a Bachelor mentality or a monogamous
thought process, the success of Male birth control can help men of all types.
Bachelors can enjoy their individuality and their time with companions by not
having a women become pregnant. Monogamous men can also can take their time
with their sole companion and use Male birth control to see if that’s really
the person they want to spend their life with, and not become stuck in a relationship
just because their partner is pregnant. Wilt Chamberlin lived a bachelors life
but gained a monogamous thought process and responsible precautions such as
Male birth control can help prevent unwanted outcomes in relationships.
Check out the Man... the Myth.... the LEGEND! WILT the STILT http://mentalfloss.com/article/12310/did-wilt-chamberlain-really-sleep-20000-women
Check out the Man... the Myth.... the LEGEND! WILT the STILT http://mentalfloss.com/article/12310/did-wilt-chamberlain-really-sleep-20000-women
Classic Conditioning Message 2: Take Your Birth Control and keep
rolling with the good times! Having sex is fun but thinking about all the negative consequences that can transpire afterwards can dampen the mood. It’s almost like a roller coaster. Everyone enjoys the thrill of the twist and turns of the rollercoaster but everyone hates the feeling in the pit of your stomach when the ride ends. That’s the equivalent of having reckless sex practices. The twist and turns are having great sexual encounters with various beautiful people and maybe the apex is marrying one of these people! The wallowing dips, free falls, and post ride depression of rollercoasters parallel unplanned pregnancies, single parents, and child support payments. Birth Control for women and continued research for male birth control options are like the ride conductors checking that your set belt is buckled so you don't have an anxiety attack during the ride. Who wants to get on a ride that isn’t safe or up or properly inspected? Sure maybe there’s a thrill in taking a risk into the unknown but if someone gets hurt by then it’s too late. The effects are everlasting. Its important to have fun, responsible, and consistent fun in order to keep the good times rolling.
Here's a father's day video that may peak your interest. It's insightful so please go watch it. http://www.inquisitr.com/26857/boobs-and-rollercoasters-happy-fathers-day-video/
Classic Conditioning message # 3 -Repetition and Intensity.
Popping Pills or Popping out Babies ? Take the pills and continue to have the single thrill!
Taking pills are tedious and a forgetful individual can skip a pill day. Young people and single adults have more freedom then married couples and parents. On the drop of a dime they can go out to a rooftop party, or go on a weekend trip to Miami because they don’t have any growing obligations. By growing obligations I mean kids and child support payments. Staying knowledgeable and up to date with pills adds some repetition to a daily routine but it can help keep your independence and ensure a stress free lifestyle from kids. Think about being single and the unlimited amounts of fun you can have, because you only have to be responsible for yourself. Think back to when you were a kid and looked out your window and saw all your friends outside having the times of their lives, but you had to stay inside because you have chores and obligations. It may sound intense or dramatic, buy that’s how it feels having kids when you’re not stable or ready to give up your social independence.
Subliminal Persuasion message #4: I'm okay with kids
Children doing undesirable things
such as throwing up, needing their diaper changed , and crying uncontrollably
could be used as subliminal messages. It could be subtle message to make something go off in
somebodies head like “ Hey maybe I can wait on procreating for a little while…”
Credible Speaker #1: President Barack NoMama
A credible communicator such as Barrack
Obama would help convey the importance of birth control knowledge and male birth
control research. He’s was a big advocate for government funding of the Planned
Parenthood program which gives people options and resources when it comes to pregnancies.
He’s a former president, very well spoken and a family man so he can convey his
thoughts in an articulate and knowledge manner. He also has been a working
class individual with a family, and can attest to the stresses of being a parent while having strenuous
job, like most American parents and professionals.
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Credible speaker # 2: Single and Successful: Be like Oprah WIN-frey!
Another credible communicator would
be Oprah Winfrey. She’s one of the most iconic and influential people in the world.
Oprah was raped and gave birth to a child when she was young, but the child died
when she was 14. Since then she has been single and has no children. She could
talk about how being single has led to her success and allowed her to have more
time to change the world’s social perceptions and preconceived stereotypes based on race,
social class, and sexuality. She’s trustworthy because her show was based on
empathy and allowed people to talk openly with her about their inner most feelings and thoughts even though the
whole country was watching.
7. Fearful Message: The reality of unstable homes and why you should care about Pregnancy SCARES!
There is a real risk for negative
events in their life of parents who had unprotected sex with no birth control. In
the United States, more than 80.6 percent of single parents are mothers. Among
them, 45 percent are divorced or separated, 1.7 percent are widowed, while 34
percent never have been married, according to Census Bureau statistics from
2013.
Children raised in intact families have, on average, higher academic achievement, better emotional health, and fewer behavioral problems. Compared with peers in intact families and those in stepfamilies or single-parent families where either the biological father or mother was present, children who lived in households where no biological parent was present fared less well with regard to 24 out of 30 indicators of emotional well-being and behavior. This was true even when demographic factors were held constant. When compared with their peers from families with two biological parents, students who lived with neither biological parent scored lower with regard to academic performance, educational aspiration, sense of self determination, and self-esteem, and they exhibited more behavioral problems.
Children raised in intact families have, on average, higher academic achievement, better emotional health, and fewer behavioral problems. Compared with peers in intact families and those in stepfamilies or single-parent families where either the biological father or mother was present, children who lived in households where no biological parent was present fared less well with regard to 24 out of 30 indicators of emotional well-being and behavior. This was true even when demographic factors were held constant. When compared with their peers from families with two biological parents, students who lived with neither biological parent scored lower with regard to academic performance, educational aspiration, sense of self determination, and self-esteem, and they exhibited more behavioral problems.
Adolescents from stable families are less
likely to become sexually active. Among a sample of adolescent virgins, those
who live with two married parents were roughly 40 percent less
likely to engage in sexual activity before the follow-up interview
approximately a year later than adolescents who were not living with two
married parents.
Great read for those of you with two parents to look at the lives of others without parental guidance and a stable home. http://familyfacts.org/briefs/6/benefits-of-family-for-children-and-adults
Great read for those of you with two parents to look at the lives of others without parental guidance and a stable home. http://familyfacts.org/briefs/6/benefits-of-family-for-children-and-adults
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1.I picked Wilt Chamberlin because he’s
a social and athletic icon that is known by different generations of people. He
also represents two relationship dynamics which is an important focus.
2.I used the rollercoaster analogy because it represents fun,
thrill, and euphoria but also fear, sadness, and unpredictably.
3.I used the metaphor about kids in the window and the fear of
missing out on fun. Taking pills is a repetitive process that seems and elderly
task but in actuality it allow people to preserve the ability to indulge in youthful
activities and fun.
4. I used funny and subtle pictures that would appeal to
young adults because it’s witty but not to crude. It’s simply which allows
people to have an opinion but not to be taken too serious.
5. I picked Barack Obama because he’s very well spoken and charismatic
and has been a huge advocate for Planned Parenthood. He’s probably the most social
President besides JFK.
6. I picked Oprah because she has harnessed influence through
money, rapport, and empathy. She’s a global icon and a outlier in the Black
community. Black mother’s are always depicted in the media as loud, brash,
emotional, single mothers, but Oprah is the opposite. She’s a self-made
billionaire and successful business women which is rare.
7. I wanted to bring in more facts to close out my blog and
talk about something that could affect the children of single parents, so
readers would look out for the lives and future circumstances of their kids.
